:) I saw this beautiful girl on Hye Singles and I felt the connection just by looking at her profile.I decided to send her a message hoping to get a response. I asked her to fly to California from the east cost even thought she was afraid of flying.
Anyways only one of them was probably a 5, cool lady, 42 yrs old, though and we had fun, but the rest were 8s or 9s and early 20s.
Then early 2014 I was dating a beautiful 18 year old girl (I'm almost 40) for a few months.
At the end of the day this site is worthless, with the exception of selling something like a car or a t.v., other than that the personals are a joke and the staff or whoever runs the site are basically getting paid to sit on their butts, in my opinion the way to a successful business is consumer interaction, and even if like in this case this site being almost free in many ways with the exception of adult services and paid ads, there still has to be some sort of link put into place for all users to contact customer service and someone to work dealing with customer complaints, and getting rid of the computer section that is flagging people for no reason, or at least making it harder for just anyone to flag you and having their friends flag you just because they couldnt get laid in a morgue.
As a guy who has had some success on CL, let me offer my thoughts.
I look for something somewhat specific, but common and something many women are into, even if only temporarily.