Once the intense cuteness has faded, usually things have settled to the point you are comfortable and secure with one another.This does not mean your man has gone off of you; it's just another stage in your relationship.If he suddenly texts you a bit out of the blue one Friday night after several days or weeks of not talking, he hasn't been busy.
Think about it: How many times have you gone out with someone that you lost interest in and began to feel annoyed with?
Perhaps you were intentionally rude to some guy just so he would leave you alone? If he's saying things in an attempt to provoke a response (e.g.: cracking woman jokes, mocking you, making rude blunt statements, being short with you, swearing inappropriately or making you feel bad in any way), you should avoid him.
If it has been a few weeks and he's doing the following, then it's a sign he's not actually looking for a relationship with you: He went from a romantic to a slob who's never around.
Whether he's letting his personal appearance and hygiene slide, the quality of your dates is becoming disappointing, or his behaviour is below par, if he's making much less effort than he was initially, it's probably because he's losing interest.
You want to meet them for a drink, go and see a film, get some dinner, or even just hang out at home together.