The second date, was a lot more casual, which we had planned anyway.
We went to Starbucks for a drink, then walked to his flat for lunch and to watch tv shows. Then he snuggled up beside me and it just felt so right, eventually he was going for a sleep and slept on my shoulder, and eventually his head was on my chest, with his arm around my neck as he stroked the back of my neck.
A couple of months ago, I wrote about the idea of addiction to Grindr and how some men struggled with their use of apps like Grindr, Scruff, Hornet, Manhunt and Bender.
Flirtation and dating involve skills so it is possible to improve over time. One of my clients, who had experienced many disappointments and much hurt in learning about gay relationships, told me me that self-preservation was key.
We sat, we laughed, he abused me whilst I pretended to be upset by it.