It happens to guys and it happens to girls and oftentimes, it can cause more heartbreak than an actual breakup. Well maybe one (or all) of these scenarios apply to your situation. He’s cute, he’s funny, and when he’s around you, he completely let’s his guard down. and you know exactly what the other person is thinking.
Well, for starters, you never run out of alcohol or pizza.
Morning, noon, or night, you are more than comfortable snacking on junk food!
I’m talking about moving on mentally and letting it go. And be honest with him and yourself when you make the decision that you’re happy just being friends (people can tell when you’re faking it). What I mean is don’t talk like you’re just friends, but then in your mind plan your wedding day and the love story that led to it.
It can actually be one of the greatest lessons to learn to truly let a crush go and accept just being friends. And it also gives the other person the psychological “space” to possibly grow feelings for you at some point down the line. I remember back in high school when I had a devastating crush on my best female friend. Don’t cry and moan to your friends about how it’s not fair and how it shouldn’t be this way. It’s not easy, but if you can’t truly do this, you can kiss your chances of getting out of the friend zone goodbye. So now that you’re just friends and you’re cool with it, it’s time for a personal reinvention. I know some of you in the audience are about to throw something at me and scream, “Why should **I** have to change for him? I’m not changing for anyone, that’s so desperate and lame.” OK, fine. But this article is called “How to Get Out of the Friend Zone” and not “How to Do Everything You’ve Been Doing All Along and Magically Get Different Results.” See my point?
She attracted him and in some way made it clear (usually without a word) that if he wants her, he needs to act now or lose his shot. hint) 2) He knows he can put up a front and the new girl will buy it… The reality of relationships is that for them to move forward, they need to deepen over time.